Archive for February, 2009

The Esoteric Buck

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

It brushes gently across my face like a soft breeze. It is both cool and refreshing. And perhaps, dare I admit it? A quick smile replaces whatever look has been plastered on my face since waking up this morning.

What is this momentary concept that has made me feel the simple jolts of amusement? It is a new movie that is scheduled to be released on March 20, 2009, unless you were among the fortunate few who saw it at this year’s Sundance Film Festival. It is an independent movie by Magnolia Pictures, but it has a most awesome cast including John Malkovich in the title role. Tom Hanks is another big name associated with it.

The Great Buck Howard.

According to the synopsis, it is about a washed-up mentalist and hypnotist, ala Kreskin-style. His career is waning (well, what do you expect when a hypnotist uses the old, one-two and quack like a duck idea), but he hires new staff and things (hopefully) look up in the form of lets put 800 people to “sleep.” At least that is how it appears in the trailers.

However, I will probably have to await the DVD release of it because it only has a few select places it will be playing (unless it goes large - lets hope so) when it is publicly released. If any of you caught it at Sundance or see it when it is officially released, I would love to have a review of it here.

And that the smile, the butterfly-like fragility of the moment, passes.

Source: greatbuckhowardmovie.com

P.S.

Emily - We are SOOOO proud of you.

10 Questions with Cindy Locher

Friday, February 27th, 2009

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Location: Apple Valley, MN
Cyber Locations: www.cindylocher.com and www.mn-hypnosis.com

1. Are you a full time hypnotist, part-time or hobbyist?

I am a full time practicing clinical hypnotist.

2. Do you specialize in any type of hypnosis?

My practice focuses on anxiety and panic disorders, smoking cessation, weight loss and sports hypnosis. I also teach self hypnosis at two local colleges, do public speaking and have a local radio show to educate the area audience about hypnosis.

3. Is there any type of hypnosis you do not do? Why?

I do not do single-session hypnosis, either one-on-one or in group. I believe that it takes multiple sessions both to develop strong rapport with the client and to allow any underlying issues to come to light. I also feel that it takes multiple sessions to truly create change in the client’s subconscious beliefs and self image, and that is how you accomplish true change.

4. Do you use self-hypnosis regularly in your life? If so, how?

Yes, I do. I spend at least 12 minutes daily in self hypnosis (don’t ask me how I settled on 12 minutes!), whether I have sessions that day or not. If I am doing sessions, I want to be in trance prior to working with the clients as I find that it enhances my intuition.

5. Describe your hypnosis office or work setting.

My office is comfortable, but basic. It is a relaxing, calm environment, and neutral with respect to spiritual or religious representation. I have “the comfy chair” for my clients, a stereo for playing background music, a computer for recording sessions and burning discs for clients to use at home.

6. Describe a typical day in your life.

My day starts with my six-year old! Mornings are for her. We get ready and I take her to school every day, and this is important time for us. After that I see clients between the hours of 10 and 5, and spend time on recording projects, etc. as my schedule allows. Evenings and weekends are reserved for family, unless a client has an emergency need to be seen, which is very rare.

7. Where did you get your training in hypnosis and are you certified?

I am trained and certified through the Hypnosis Motivation Institute (HMI) in California, founded by Dr. John Kappas in 1948.

8. Most fabulous hypnosis technique you use?

Do I have to choose just one? I love releasing the negative emotional energy around people’s fears and anxieties using the “Circle Therapy” technique taught at HMI. It allows them to have such an immediate sense of relief. But I also find parts therapy and age regression vital to the work.

9. Worse moment ever in a hypnosis setting that ended up being a valuable learning experience.

Early on I had some embarrassing moments when my induction didn’t work for a particularly analytical sort, but since then I’ve learned how to switch up my induction and adjust based on what is happening. So I suppose that’s my valuable learning experience right there, be flexible and client-centered.

10. Any words of advice to potential clients or other hypnotists.

To potential clients: take the time to find a hypnotist you trust, with whom you feel a good rapport. Without that your results will be compromised.

To other hypnotists: be professional, invest in your own continuous learning, and “walk the walk.” We must use the skills we teach to others to improve our lives and manage our own emotions to be credible.

Scoured and Censured?

Thursday, February 26th, 2009


Photograph by Shaun Roberts

The flash of metallic tingling races through my tired body as I flip on the kitchen light. Reaching down to pet the cat, electric static makes us both draw back, feeling minute pain rather than the pleasure of a good morning. Now I find the computer acting persnickety as well. I spent half and hour trying to leave a comment for a friend and accidently sent him a rough draft of a paper I was working on. Yikes (however these days, I seem to be having more and more trouble leaving comments on blogger…is the big blue G involved with this?). Over at Izea, I find their links taking me in circles, never quite were I want to go.

But persevering online, I notice something on scour.com, which I have been using as a search engine. It is a little red link at the top, right side of the page. It says “contest winner.” A few weeks ago, I did one of my “Ellie Animations” for this contest. Well, I never heard one word from them and yes, obviously I did not win. Clicking on the “contest” link, the winner is a wonderful entry that features some pretty delightful photography. I believe I would have chosen this piece, too. But to make sure, I click on the link to see all the other entries. Guess what. My entry is not there. What? Was it the reference to the evil empire of the big blue G? Probably. Its wrath is everywhere. But, none the less, I am disappointed that I was not even allowed to participate and think it is all part of censorship. Boo!!!

In using scour.com’s search engine for a month or so, I find that it does involve the three heavies - the big blue G, Yahoo, and Microsoft. It gives you the three search at once. I guess I had not quite realized it utilized these. The other thing is that it is a little clunky on providing searches, not nearly as fast as the big blue G. The only real positive thing I may be able to say about the service is that they supposedly pay you. It keeps track of the number of searches you do and when you hit a certain number (6000), it provides you with a $25 gift certificate. That is kind of nice. Its competitor, dogpile.com, does not do that. Also, you can leave comments about certain search results (ranking it?). I suppose that is handy. (I am trying not to totally let my disappointment cloud my judgement of the service…but today that is hard. This enlightenment thing…). Sigh.

It sure seems like the universe is sending me a message, but my head is too cottony to remotely interpret it. Maybe it is saying “Ellie, go back to bed” or “have a pancake, you will feel better” or “another cup of coffee never hurt anyone…” and so I find myself lured to the coffee pot for yet another cup of 8′ Clock.

Mmmm. Caffeinated warmth. There is nothing quite like it, the warmth of the small ceramic coffee cup, hot in cold hands.

Maybe the universe is just telling me to go back to bed and start again - clear my mind and begin the morning afresh.

The Hypknowsis.com Affirmation Method

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

by Dave Mason, PhD © 2009

Affirmations are simple and powerful, but finding the right affirmation can be difficult. This article describes a procedure for automatically creating affirmations that will have just the right words, and are guaranteed to align with your goals.

Preparation

Set aside some time, about fifteen or twenty minutes.

You will need paper and something to write with.

Spend some quiet time thinking about yourself and your situation and what it is that you want to change about yourself.

Write down how you feel

Then take the pen and paper and start writing lots of short sentences starting with ‘I’. For example ‘I am…’, ‘I feel..’, ‘ I want…’, ‘I need…’, ‘I think….’ . Use actual paper, not a word processor. The act of physically writing and forming the shapes engages your brain differently. Write on one side of the paper only. Just let the words flow. Do as  many as you can as fast as you can. Don’t think about the exact words, don’t agonise over whether it is right or wrong or whether it is original or anything else. Just write. And keep writing for about ten minutes or until nothing new is coming out. Look over what you have written, and if anything else occurs to you, write that down as a sentence.

Create the strips

When you are done, cut or tear the paper into strips so that each sentence is on its own bit of paper.

Throw away any sentences that are facts like ‘ I am five feet tall’ or ‘I need to lose weight’. Throw away any sentences that you can’t do anything about, for example ‘I didn’t do well at school’ or ‘I need more time‘. Only keep the ones that are about feelings, attitudes, beliefs.

Sort the strips into piles

Now mix all the strips up and pull them out one at a time and put them into piles that relate to the same thing. Some strips might belong in several piles. That is OK. Write out a copy of the original sentence and put the copies into as many piles as needed.

Sort though  each pile, there might be lots of strips or there might be only one or two. It doesn’t matter. There is no right number. Now get a fresh bit of paper and write a label for each pile, and label it with what it is about. Just sit back and become aware of any relationship between the labels. You might find you need to rewrite the labels several times. You might want to rearrange the piles.

Separate the strips

Now, take each pile and sort the strips into positive and negative. Notice whether any are contradictory, they show that you have a conflict about the subject. Read each negative strip aloud, and challenge the idea. Ask yourself, ‘How do I know this is true?, How would I prove to someone else that this sentence is true?’ Think about the sentence, and think about what you would advise someone else who said that, how you would get them to change, and what they would do.

Balance all the negative strips

Match up every negative strip with a positive strip. If there is no positive strip, then create one. Write a sentence that is the opposite of the negative one. Say it aloud. Repeat it and change it until it sounds just right.

Do that for each pile. You will probably find that your attitude to each pile changes and you might need to relabel the piles.

Write down you goals

When you have done every pile, get some more paper and create five bigger labels. These bigger labels are for listing your goals.

Write one of  the words ‘Financial, Health, Self Improvement, Relationships, Community’ on a label. Now spend some time thinking about what you want for each goal, and write down some things you will have achieved in one year, and in five years. Only write three to five things for each goal. You can spend some deciding what you want and you can go back and change them as many times as you want. When you are happy that the things you have listed are what you really want, and are possible to get,  write out a clean copy of your goals.

Find where the energy is  for your goals

Now put the goal labels next to the piles of strips, and move them around and feel what piles will help to achieve that goal. Focus on finding the most powerful goal and pile combination. You might have to create some more positive strips.

Get rid of the negative strips

When you have got the arrangement the way you want, take away all the negative strips. Look at each one and imagine how you would like to get rid of it. You can actually burn them, or flush them down the toilet, whatever you feel is best.

Start focussing on your goals

The next step is to start getting those goals. You are going to put those goal labels in places where you will come upon them unexpectedly. Put one in the cutlery drawer so you see it the next time to go to get a spoon. Put one on the bathroom mirror. Put one on the driving seat of the car. Keep moving them around so they pop up and make you take notice. If you go out for example, throw one on the floor without looking, so it will surprise you when you come back. Then pick it up and read your goals again, and ask ‘What have I done today towards that goal?’. ‘What could I have done?’ and resolve to do it.

Start using your affirmations

What you have left is the positive strips. These are your affirmations. By going through this process every affirmation is linked to a goal. You need to find a way of going over these affirmations daily. What to do is to select a few of the strips each day and put them in your pocket, or on your desktop, and whenever you have a moment, take one out and say your positive affirmation out loud. You can select one when waiting for the traffic lights, or the next time you look at the clock, or any other time. Get into the habit of pulling one at random, saying the sentence and thinking about it leading to your goal. The constant repetition and the focus on what you want will make it all come true sooner than you ever dreamed possible.


Note from Ellie

I will be doing this as a project on The Unwinding Path on Monday, March 2. I hope you will join me. Also, please leave some feedback on this process as David would appreciate it.

Les Bon Temps

Tuesday, February 24th, 2009


Photograph by Always Changing Clothing

Today I find myself getting ready for a Mardi Gras party this evening. I am in charge of making dirty rice. Hmmm. There is so much I could do with dirty rice and writing about it, but I fear that will totally get me off topic and though one of my goals in 43things.com is to lose 20 lbs (15 now, thank you), as obsessed as I am with food (healthy cooking) these days, this is not quite a food blog.

In other words, I am in a good mood on this very cold morning. I am still behind, but I plan to be back on some even ground by the beginning of March. What a perfect time to do something a little different. Yes, another project for The Unwinding Path. If you are following that at all, you know I am working on my goals for this year with 43things.com. Now I have a new tool that might help us all in our goals. Hypnotist David Mason recently sent me an article about affirmations to share with you. He has created a new method called The hypknowsis.com Affirmation Method. It is a process to find and use the right affirmations for making positive self changes. Hypno people, does this sound familiar, maybe a lot like creating working suggestions for clients and for self-hypnosis?

Anyway I am just posting this as a bit of a tease at the moment. In the next day or two I will post his article here for you to read. For the non-hypno people who read this blog, this does not necessarily use hypnosis so it is a good general project for anyone who is trying to make changes. David is looking for some feedback on this and the best way to get that is to actually do the process. I will be starting it next Monday on The Unwinding Path, so feel free to join me there as an active participant or a silent partner.

Cycles in the Hypno World News

Monday, February 23rd, 2009


Photograph by katmere

Quotes of the Week

Over time, I saw that patients were coming back — experiencing a frequency of similar problems. They expected medications or supplies to make them feel better, but I noticed that those things didn’t always make them feel better - Dorothy Whitton, RN, MSN, AHN-BC in the article Mind, Body, Spirit: The Art of Healing - A Hudson Valley nurse practices holistic nursing, challenging RNs and patients to take care of themselves on Nurse.com.

It is a deep, relaxed state of mind. One hour of hypnosis is equal to several hours of sound sleep - Hypnotist Brian Imbus from an article in the East Dubuque Register.

I was able to wean myself off my inhaler. I saw that it [hypnosis] was working, so I kept studying it. I wanted to do shows to show people how powerful it is - Hypnotist John Raven from an article on www.lehighvalleylive.com.

Prudhomme summed up hypnotism with three words: awake, aware, relaxed - form an article about hypnotist Rick Allen in an article in the Port Clinton News Herald.

The Good

  • So here we are, picking ourselves up from the rubble of the economy or at least trying to make a good attempt. Many have lost their jobs and are just getting by (if that). But - there is hope (there is always big, old, bad hope). Though Kathleen Connolly wears a hypnosis hat, she is also a career counselor. Recently she did an interview with www.charlotteobserver.com called Career counselor helps those at a crossroads. For those who are struggling with finding a new job, take moment and read Kathleen’s words. There might be something in this article for you. Also note that the article is not really slanted toward hypnosis but more on the right mind set of finding a new job.
  • Let’s see - he won the Amgen Tour of California (cycling) two years in a row, placed third in the 2007 Tour de France and won a bronze medal in the time trial at the 2008 Beijing Olympics. We are talking about Levi Leipheimer. What helped him to achieve all this? You know it - hypnosis. He bought the Ultimate Cyclist CD, a joint project between hypnotist Rick Collingwood and coach Josh Horowitz. Awesome!!!! Source: USA Today
  • Curious about hypnosis in Asia? They approach it a tad bit differently than say the National Guild of Hypnotists, but it is still worth a look. Source: Asia One Health

Is There Anybody Out There?

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009


Photograph by flickrich

There is the belief that we are all connected universally, and I do not mean just by computers, phone technology, cameras or whatever. There is something more intrinsic and common between us. Therefore one might think one is never alone. But, today, I feel total solitude. Most of the time when I feel such things, it is peaceful. Today it just seem lonely.

My question is:

Is there anybody out there?

And….if you feel like being deeper, feel free to share your ideas on the collective.

Esoteric Saturday: Jane Annie

Saturday, February 21st, 2009

by Terry O’Brien

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Given the people behind it, it should have been a raging success.

It wasn’t.

“Jane Annie, or The Good Conduct Prize” was an opera written by J M Barrie (of “Peter Pan” fame) and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle (of Sherlock Holmes fame) with music by Ernest Ford, for the Savoy Theatre by Richard D’Oyly Carte.

Several years before he wrote “Peter Pan”, J M Barrie was a prominent journalist and novelist with one successful stage production to his credit. He conceived of the opera “Jane Annie” and brought the concept to Richard D’Oyly Carte. At that time, Carte and his theater were suffering because of the dissolution of the famous team of Gilbert & Sullivan several years earlier, and he was looking for material to replace the popular duo. Carte suggested having Arthur Sullivan collaborate but Barrie wanted his former pupil Ernest Ford. Unfortunately, however, in 1893, Barrie suffered from bronchitis which led to the first of his series of nervous breakdowns and was unable to complete the project. Barrie asked his friend Doyle to help, which was a good idea insofar as Doyle was the hottest literary property of the time since creating Sherlock Holmes only six years previously. By the time Doyle began work on the libretto, the shape of the play had already been determined and he was unable to correct what he saw as serious problems. Doyle himself said “Ideas and wit were there in abundance. But the plot itself was not strong, although the dialogue and the situations also were occasionally excellent. I did my best and wrote the lyrics for the second act, and much of the dialogue, but it had to take the predestined shape.” When Barrie recovered, he and Doyle argued and repeatedly changed the script, so much so that the actors were still apprehensive up to opening night and beyond.

The title character, Jane Annie, is a brat in adult form in school. Her goal in the first act is to win the Good Conduct Award by informing on the plans of her friend Bab to elope. Then, at the beginning of the second act, she explains herself: as a small child, she discovered that she could make people do whatever she willed by hypnotizing them.

SONG. ­ JANE ANNIE.
When I was a little piccaninny,
Only about _so_ high,
I’d a baby’s bib and a baby’s pinny
And a queer little gimlet eye.
They couldn’t tell why that tiny eye
Would make them writhe and twist,
They found it so, but how could they know
That the babe was a hypnotist?

ALL.
Now think of that! this tiny bray
Was a bit of a hypnotist!

JANE A.
And as I grew my power grew too,
For we were one, you see,
And what I willed the folk would do
At a wave or a glance from me.
I could “suggest” what pleased me best,
And still can, when I list,
And Madam Card will find it hard
To beat this hypnotist!

ALL.
Oh, think of it! This little chit
Is a mighty mesmerist!

This very stereotypical use of hypnosis is accomplished through her almost instantaneous inductions and are accomplished by hypnotic gestures and passes (such stereotypical actions are very much in line with Victorian times.) She uses her abilities to command the affections of the man she fancies, as well as being matchmaker when her best friend Bab is conflicted between two possible suitors, Jack the military officer or Tom the press student: Jane Annie takes the practical course and hypnotically takes Jack for herself and hypnotizes Bab and Tom into accepting each other. Any possible obstruction by the members of the faculty at the school are quickly dismissed with a hypnotic wave of her hand, and the two couples exit to a rousing chorus exclaiming her hypnotic prowess.

CHORUS.

Hyp-hyp-hyp-notize!
Another!
Hyp-hyp-hypnotize!
One more!
Hyp-hyp-hypnotize!

Its hard to believe that the lead character was supposed to have this hypnotic power: it doesn’t appear at all in the first act yet is the main focus of the character in the second act. The reason, I think, is because of Doyle’s involvement. Barrie, as far as I can tell, had no interest in hypnotism, nor are there any appearances of such in his writings, whereas Doyle was actively involved in Spiritualism and mediums and so it is not a far stretch to believe hypnotism was also one of his interests, as hypnosis is mentioned in the Sherlock Holmes story ‘The Case of the Illustrious Client’ in conjunction with the way a sinister individual has taken control of a young heiress but it is never shown or demonstrated, and is more explicitly used in two other non-Holmes short stories. However, one of Barrie’s biographers surmises that while the hypnosis scenes sprung from Doyle’s mind, hypnotism is such a major moving force of the second act that Barrie must have conceived it and made it part of the scenario available to Doyle that he apparently couldn’t correct. I think Doyle was stuck with a scenario where he had to explain the way the lead character was able to get away with what she did and decided to use hypnosis as the rationale.

It is, however, safe to assume that both writers were at least conscious about hypnosis as more than just a literary device. Hypnosis was a very popular topic of research and demonstration among the upper-class of Victorian England of the period, of which both authors were members. Among its practitioners were such fellow writers as Charles Dickens and Wilkie Collins (author of “The Moonstone”: one of the earliest mystery writers, creator of the final exposition scene by the investigating detective and a writer who made use of hypnotic elements in his stories.) Demonstrations of a wide range of hypnotic phenomena, including mediumship, were common. (These demonstrations, I believe, also strongly influenced the origin of the practice of stage hypnosis.)

However, such demonstrations were typically and probably exclusively in terms of the Victorian culture, with a dominant upper-class man hypnotizing a lower-class woman, usually a servant, using her as the object (or perhaps the term “subject” would be more appropriate) for the demonstration. Some of these women became well-known and achieved a certain level of fame in their own right, but the class boundaries were always present. That’s what makes “Jane Annie” so striking: the lead character is so completely at odds not only with the pattern described above, she is so completely at odds with the accepted role for women in Victorian society, being a self-centered dominant woman hypnotist of rather uncertain social standing and a social climber of the most aggressive sort. This could only happen because this was intended as a comic opera. (It would be an interesting investigation to see whether this was a common theme in Victorian productions.)

The opera was the theater’s first flop: critics hated it. After the first performance, Ford was applauded for his music but the authors were not even accorded the accepted custom of being asked out on stage. George Bernard Shaw reviewed it and said it was, “the most unblushing outburst of tomfoolery that two responsible citizens could conceivably indulge in publicly.” Doyle and Barrie made 4 revisions of the libretto, an unlikely number given the relatively short run. Ultimately, even Barrie was embarrassed and disappointed with it. However, one positive result was that Doyle and Barrie remained good friends, and the failure of the opera did little to stop their literary successes. Barrie even wrote a spoof of the situation entitled “The Adventure of the Two Collaborators” in which the collaborators approach Holmes and Watson to discover why no one was attending their opera.

The production ran for 50 performances in London from May 13, 1893 through July 1, 1893. It then went on tour until August 26. “Jane Annie” has been rarely performed since and is largely forgotten to this day, remembered only for its Barrie and Doyle connections, as well as its collateral connection with Gilbert & Sullivan.


The enclosed image is from a newspaper review of the performance. I have to thank Cliff Coles, a contributor to the Gilbert & Sullivan Archives, for providing me with the image.

References:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jane_Annie
http://math.boisestate.edu/GaS/other_savoy/jane_annie/jane_annie_home.html

10 Questions with Paul Ramsay

Friday, February 20th, 2009

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Location: Somersworth, NH
Cyber Location: www.paulramsay.com

1. Are you a full time hypnotist, part-time or hobbyist?

I work as a hypnotist full-time, splitting my time between stage hypnotism and consulting hypnotism. I’ve been practicing full-time for about five years, now.

2. Do you specialize in any type of hypnosis?

I don’t promote my practice through any specialty, but I have done specialized training with Ron Eslinger in pain management, and I am also a Certified Instructor with the National Guild of Hypnotists, so I can teach people who want to get certified in hypnotism.

3. Is there any type of hypnosis you do not do? Why?

Since I am a lay hypnotist I don’t do any clinical disorders like depression. I leave that to folks with the proper clinical background. I also do not do past-lives regression. I’m open to the idea of past lives, but don’t have a passion for it that would lead me to specializing in it.

4. Do you use self-hypnosis regularly in your life? If so, how?

Absolutely! I’m using self-hypnosis for weight reduction right now, and I also use it occasionally to help me sleep better.

5. Describe your hypnosis office or work setting.

I have a home office, which I wouldn’t say is ideal, but because I travel a few days a week to perform I can’t have a full-time public office. When I have had enough of the traveling, I will definitely open a full-time office. It’s much more professional and definitely has an impact on how your clients perceive the level of service that they’re receiving.

But, for now, my little home office is quite nice. I have an Apple computer that I run my entire business with, from scheduling to bookkeeping to recording and editing of audio and video files. I have a 1-to-3 CD/DVD burner so that I can duplicate DVDs and CDs for my ecommerce site. My “library” consists of a five shelf bookshelf where I keep all my resources on hypnotism. I think it’s really important to build your own library and use it regularly.

6. Describe a typical day in your life.

I get up at 7:30 a.m. and spend the first couple hours of the day doing emails, writing my blog, and reading articles that come to me through Google Alerts. I take a break mid-morning and practice tai-chi. Then I might work on a new recording or another project on my To-Do list. I try to do some reading every day about hypnotism or a related topic that will help me develop my skills and practice. I also spend some time every day doing some kind of promotion, whether it’s direct mailing, changes to my website, or outreach to different media folks. Work in a client here and there, and travel to different venues for my performances, and the schedule fills out quite nicely.

7. Where did you get your training in hypnosis and are you certified?

I trained with Jerry Valley for my initial certification through the National Guild of Hypnotists. I trained with Ron Eslinger to become a Certified Instructor.

8. Most fabulous hypnosis technique you use?

Unlike many other hypnotists, I don’t use the hand clasp technique as a test; I use it as an induction. One day I figured, “Hey, if they pass the test then really they’ve got catalepsy, right? So why am I testing with this? Why don’t I just deepen right from that point?” It knocked three minutes off my induction time and it impresses people when I do a show or give a demonstration.

9. Worse moment ever in a hypnosis setting that ended up being a valuable learning experience.

I watched a demonstration once in which the hypnotist told the volunteer that she would see her dead husband and be able to talk to him. I believe the hypnotist was acting from a well-intended place, trying to help her get closure, but he treated the whole situation as if her “third eye” had opened and she was actually communicating with her husband. He was creating a hallucination! I was mortified to think that this woman would leave that session and go back to family and friends and possibly tell them that she had somehow had a cross-over experience with her husband. I didn’t speak up that day and voice my concerns, but I learned from that experience and I know that in the future I will do a better job of asserting myself when I think someone is being misled, even if the intentions of the hypnotic facilitator are good.

10. Any words of advice to potential clients or other hypnotists.

This is a golden time for hypnotism. If you’re an aspiring hypnotist, take advantage of the opportunity! More and more people are opening their minds to holistic wellness. More research dollars are being spent on alternative modalities. Do your homework, keep training and learning all the time, and you could reap the benefit of this exciting time in our profession. You have to hustle, though! There are thousands and thousands of certified hypnotists out there, yet the majority of them don’t have dedicated practices. With over 300 million people in American alone, there is enough work out there for all of us. If we do a better job of educating the public and representing our profession, the opportunities will only grow and grow for us.

The Manta: Fun as a Renewable Resource

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

The prophecy read:

You will teach people how to have fun during a time when fun is a commodity. You are the voice of the people. You are connected.

There were no big words of cataclysmic proportion, nothing about worlds shattering, just the southern lilt in the voice of the astrologer. But before you go and think, “Ellie is about to get all New Agey on me,” not quite. Hang on for just a little while longer. First let me say that I have never been much for knowing the future. I would rather not. I would rather face it as it comes. But…alas…the astrology session was a gift from a friend, who, feeling the waves of stormy sea beneath my calm exterior, thought it might help. Who was I to refuse?

Trying to take the above words with a grain of salt, I have instead pondered them. They pop up in the middle of the night when least expected. Now as a hypnotist, it is not hard to make a connection - I have always been in this business to help people have a better sense of themselves, to find inner peace, achieve a goal, to find some sort of happiness. But fun? I never really looked at anything from a “fun” perspective.

But it is true - personally. If it is not fun, I want no part of it. I will go to great lengths, expending much energy to have fun myself. But what of others? What can I do to “teach” others how to have fun? I reel the idea in like a trout on a fishing line. Then I release it (how I wish there was no hook involved) back into the waters of the unconscious. And I wait. I wait for some sort of synchronistic event to happen that will provide guidance that resonates.

Just maybe something has resonated - a bit.

I saw a commercial (okay, I occasionally like commercials, I find them entertaining sometimes) the other day. It was a very tranquil, transpersonal, and a hopeful spot that featured children. The phrase that stuck out was “Fun as a Renewable Resource.” The synchronistic flow began. Was this an ad for a green campaign? No. It was a commercial for SeaWorld and now every time I see it, I find myself deeply touched by its message. It is not blatant advertising. It is just a nice thought.

Then I noticed Ted Murphy of Izea blogging about spending time at Orlando’s Sea World. Apparently a few select bloggers were able to get a hard hat tour of a new roller-coaster called Manta. The concept of Manta is that you are riding with a manta (laying down and attached to its belly). It involves aquariums and who knows what else. Gosh, I love a good coaster (my favorite is the Areosmith coaster at another theme park in Orlando). Yes, this says fun to me and I believe it says the same to many others. Now how can I spread, if not teach, the fun?

Well, I can begin with news of Izea’s and Seaworld’s contest. You can win a trip for four (that includes airfare, accommodations, park passes and priority access to the Manta. You can visit www.ted.me/manta to learn more about how you can win this trip.

I may not be able to “teach” you how to have fun, but I can let you know about this opportunity. In addition, here is the deal, if I win, I will have two extra tickets. I will invite two of my readers, two who are in terrible need of having fun, to accompany me. This would partially be a way of fulling the prophecy. Stay tuned.

Note: The contest has ended as of March 10, 2009.

 

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