Archive for April, 2009

The Adventures of the Mesmerizing Manta Maiden

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

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Stronger than a Great White Shark

Faster than an eel

More powerful than a Humpback Whale

Able to backflip more than a trained seal

Look in the water

It’s a power boat

No, it’s a dolphin

It’s the Mesmerizing Manta Maiden

 

Its a quiet day at the hypnotist’s office. She drinks her tea, welcomes clients, and does her part to save the world - one mind, one change at a time. But just under the surface of this pleasant facade – the business attire, the heels, the soothing voice, and the red lipstick, this hypnotist has a secret. When roller-coasters call, all new and shiny, ready to be tamed, off comes the serious professional garb, and out comes The Mesmerizing Manta Maiden. But with this superhero depiction also comes great responsibility – the ability to embrace one’s inner child, the leaving behind of adult worries, and the necessary abandonment of a workaholic lifestyle are all part of MMM’s powers. No roller-coaster ride goes undesired.

Okay, maybe this is being a little cheese ball (okay quite a bit cheesy), but today the urge is strong to just put aside all the day to day normalness and routine and embrace my inner Manatee. As you may recall, I have been blogging about SeaWorld’s soon-to-open coaster Manta. Well, it just so happens that opening day is not so far away – May 22. I am so ready to be there.  

I have never been privy enough to be one of the first to ever try out a coaster, but SeaWorld is having a ”Front-of-the-line” contest to celebrate the opening of Manta. With this you can join my League of Extraordinary Roller-coaster Riders and embrace your own manta persona. There are a series of six tasks you must accomplish to be considered for a front-of-the-line spot. First, you must prove your extraordinary knowledge of the Manta coaster by taking a brief quiz about it (the answers are all found on the site). Then you must follow the mighty, @RealShamu on twitter.com (you also have to tweet about the contest). From there you choose three others to be your partners in fun, or at least be your seat mates (providing their email…would any of you like to be my seat mates?). Show your allegiance by creating a short youtube.com video thus proving your dedication and excitement of being among the first to experience the Manta power. Take this a step farther, using the words “I heart Manta” create a photo and upload it to flickr.com. But the biggest test, that which will make you worthy of the Manta, is to print out the manta mask and take a picture of yourself in it. Every superhero needs a disguise afterall.

The question is - are you worthy to go to-the-front-of-the-line of Manta?

*Quick note to the great powers of SeaWorld or Izea.com: the Mesmerizing Manta Maiden would love to come to your headquarters and do a stress-relief session to help your associates be super ready to open this attraction. She would even probably do so for coverage of her expenses (and a ride on the Manta)…email her at ellie.blunt@gmail.com.

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When the Laughing Began

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

 
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A slightly familiar melody was playing in the background. Maybe it was Mozart, maybe it was some lesser known composer, but the the notes were in refrain and I was now aware of them. So was my client. He was so aware of the sound that in the middle of our weight cessation session, he actually began to hum along. I continued on as though nothing abnormal was happening. Then the giggles began (his) and that was almost the end of the session. I tried to count him back up to normal consciousness (feeling wonderful) but he was laughing too hard.

This  was one of the first clients, who also was a very good friend of mine. At the time it was a devastating experience for me. My mentor had told me that if a client ever started to giggle during a session, let them laugh for a few minutes then tell them to stop, which I did - and the laughing grew worse. This was awful and it has taken years for him to appreciate the hypnosis experience. 

However, in some ways it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Since it was among my first out-of-the-classroom experiences, in my mind it was an ultimate horror like running a gauntlet. But I survived. I had other clients booked so I could not just fade out of doing hypnotism. I had made a commitment to give it a go. What this session did do was prepare me (well, that and a whole lot of reading) for the notion of the “abreaction.” I had not been ready for the unexpected, but now I was. 

Another friend of ours came to me, one who had been influenced by my giggling friend. She too started laughing, but this time when the laughing began, I just said, “That’s fine. Laughter is helping you to release all your tension and helping you to become more comfortable, more relaxed. Soon you find yourself feeling calm and serene. Allow the laughter to help you feel this way as it fades away into something wonderful and peaceful.” At first the laughter grew (and I thought, “Oh no.”), but then it began to have halting quality to it and very soon burled away into deep breaths. The rest of the session continued on in a more expected way and she has been a non-smoker ever since.

I mention this because as I sat down to write this morning, my partner had the radio on and it was playing that same song I mentioned in the beginning of this post. I had mostly buried that memory into my subconscious as a lesson learned. But then when I heard the familiar refrain, it vividly brought back that moment. It seemed important to share it.

Opting-Out: Do You Comply?

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

 
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One last quick look. The coupon dates are correct. The word hypnotist is spelled correctly. The numbers in my phone number are in order. My physical address is listed. The advertising notice is at the bottom of the message. All my collected client email addresses are in the blind, carbon copy section of the email and I click send. Out across cyber space my words, thoughts, and specials are on their way to hundreds of customers. For this moment I feel satisfied. One more thing to check-off as done on my marketing to-do list. 

Of course the next thing that will occur is that I will swig another sip of Tarajulie tea and wait. Yes, there it is:

“Vous avez le courrier.”

I have mail. And there they are – the several wrong address, cannot find, have been blocked email reports. I begin to update my contact list. What will soon follow are the various people who will “opt-out” of my emails. At first, it used to depress me, each ping back to my email box was a stab of personal rejection. But, now days (unless the responses are really nasty), I accept the rejections without much thought. I respect people’s desire to cut back on what they consider spam. After all, I want the same respect (I really do not need car sale email everyday from a company in Nebraska, which is quite far away).

Personally, though, I used to rarely take the opt-out for most spam because I feared that it would just create more spam, showing the spammers that I was a live one. Then I opened my own business and decided use email advertising. It has been a sometimes painful learning experience, but a good lesson overall.

Enter The CAN-SPAM Act. This states what a commercial marketer can and cannot do legally in regards to email marketing (and the penalties of disregarding it are rather fearsome). I share this with you for two reasons. One, if you are running a small business in the US, you need to know about this and comply (if you want to appear legit). Two, if you are a consumer, here is how to tell if companies comply with The CAN-SPAM Act and therefore you are safe to “opt-out.” This is straight from the Federal Trade Commission’s web site:

  1. It bans false or misleading header information. Your email’s “From,” “To,” and routing information – including the originating domain name and email address – must be accurate and identify the person who initiated the email.
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  3. It prohibits deceptive subject lines. The subject line cannot mislead the recipient about the contents or subject matter of the message.
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  5. It requires that your email give recipients an opt-out method. You must provide a return email address or another Internet-based response mechanism that allows a recipient to ask you not to send future email messages to that email address, and you must honor the requests. You may create a “menu” of choices to allow a recipient to opt out of certain types of messages, but you must include the option to end any commercial messages from the sender.
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  7. Any opt-out mechanism you offer must be able to process opt-out requests for at least 30 days after you send your commercial email. When you receive an opt-out request, the law gives you 10 business days to stop sending email to the requestor’s email address. You cannot help another entity send email to that address, or have another entity send email on your behalf to that address. Finally, it’s illegal for you to sell or transfer the email addresses of people who choose not to receive your email, even in the form of a mailing list, unless you transfer the addresses so another entity can comply with the law.
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  9. It requires that commercial email be identified as an advertisement and include the sender’s valid physical postal address. Your message must contain clear and conspicuous notice that the message is an advertisement or solicitation and that the recipient can opt out of receiving more commercial email from you. It also must include your valid physical postal address.

Many thanks to HypnoMedia for reminding me about the relevance of this. He recently sent me a wonderful link to The World Privacy Forum’s Top Ten Opt Outs to help cut out annoying marketing material from one’s life.

Moore in Hypnosis and Other News

Monday, April 27th, 2009


Photograph of Mandy Moore by itselea (cc)

Quotes of the Week

Hypnosis helped me eliminate the things that triggered my overeating. Gone is the anxiety, stress, loneliness, low self-esteem and shame. I’m excited for each day and have new energy. I’m eating healthier and getting slimmer – quote by Jane Lambert in an article about a free clinic hypnotist David Prudhomme is presenting (Port Clinton News Herald).

There are no zombies, no murder sprees, no mid-life crises. There is only a midnight-blue sky twinkling above a vast field of brilliant-green grass, which is sandwiched between the ocean and — could it be? — a 70-room mansion of gold. The Breakers estate is mine! – the words of writer Andrew Mangino for the Yale Daily News about his hypnosis session with hypnotist Ruth Carr. (This is a really great discription of his inner thoughts while at a hypnosis session).

Some people are more suggestible than others, and there are different levels of hypnosis. It’s a mindset. I’m guiding you, and you’re doing it to yourself. I can get you in a trance in a few moments, but the long and short of it, is you’re doing it yourself. If you’re not willing to cooperate, I can’t make you do anything you don’t want to do. That’s not the way it works - from an article about dentist Dr. David N. Grayson, who uses hypnotism with some of his dental clients (The Daily Record).

Generally, I find that in Western countries the misconception about hypnosis is that it is mind control; and if it was, I wouldn’t be [in Cambodia]. I would be in the troubled spots of the world – from hypnotist Lance Castille in an article in The Phnom Penh Post.

Hypnotist Dale K is used to the skeptics who doubt his craft [hypnotism]. In fact, he likes them. They’re the most fun – from an article in The Daily Item about hypno-performer Dale K.

As Barry Wolfson introduces himself to a room full of hopeful quitters, the idea of hypnosis at first seems a little out of the realm, but as his one-hour session commences (only about 12 minutes of hypnosis), it seems like the desperate to kick the habit crowd are digging it. His class stands at about 15 members. He’s enthusiastic most will be able to stop smoking by the time they leave the doors. He said there’s a two out of three success rate – about hypnotist Barry Wolfson’s smoking cessation program, as written about in The South Bergenite.

We help them control their behaviors and to eat when they’re hungry and stop when they’re full. The point of this is helping people take control and teaching them to make the best choices – hypnotists Kasey and Jeff Quillin about their weight loss program in an article on www.oceancitytoday.net.

The Scientific Good

  • When I was little, I remember my first shopping trip to Herrods, but the questions is – do I really? Maybe not. I may remember parts of it, but a lot of it I may have creatively filled in because it suits me better. Oh, and just so you know, I am not the only one creating fairy tales about my past, apparently we all do. There was a recent study done by psychologist Elizabeth Loftus from the University of California that seems to conclude that memory is a transient, adaptive thing. The study even mentions that we can lie beautifully when in a state of hypnosis. And what about all the hubbub of false memories (a reason why one needs to be very careful when doing regression work)? Not such a bad thing. In fact the article in the Daily Record about this study suggest that false memories can be used to help with weight loss. By creating a false memory of a bad experience related to certain food items,a sense of revulsion can be created toward that food item. Hence, the person avoids said food.
  • Do you scoff at the idea of visualizing your success (or how about this question - do you scoff at the idea of visualizing your success, but oddly, find yourself feeling unsuccessful)? Well, stop scoffing. Visualization has some science linked to it that shows it can be very powerful in helping you accomplish your goals. Visualization during hypnosis is even more powerful (The Examiner).

The Good

St Mary’s University College in Twickenham (UK) is now offering a diploma of higher education in clinical hypnosis. This is being done to increase the qualifications for hypnotherapist (The Richmond and Twickenham Times).

The Bad as in Cool

Another celebrity is using hypnosis to curb stage fright - Mandy Moore (contactmusic.com).

The I-Think-This-Might-Be-Ugly

Finland is getting persnickety about alternative health care. The ministry of Social Affairs and Health working group is proposing:

that care for patients technically unable to decide for themselves, including the seriously mentally ill and those with developmental disabilities, be restricted to treatment by registered healthcare professionals only

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On the surface this seems like a pretty good idea (most clinical hypnotists find it unethical to work with the demographic discussed above). However, this may be the usual slippery slope. The source I read also mentions that others seeking care (such as pregnant women and those dealing with cancer) would only be able to use alternative therapies if administered by a licensed
medical doctor (The Helsinki Times).

A Comical Question

Sunday, April 26th, 2009

 

Image of Atom Eve

The question has finally worked its way into my morning conversation. It sits invisibly upon the table, waiting with all the patience of a cat who spots a fledgling bird in its domain. Birthed from my partner’s lips, the spark of life created from Terry’s guest post yesterday, he looks at me before drinking another sip of coffee.

“What comic book character would you be if you had to chose?” As if I am not a comic character in my own right, drawn from organic, flowery imagery and quiet words of contemplation. Would the media not have it that I already have a comic book super power of manipulation and mind control (yes, my sarcasm runneth over). Perhaps I would be noble and be V from V for Vendetta, but that does not count because I believe that is a graphic novel. Maybe Catwoman (because I may grow old and be that crazy cat woman down the street). Maybe Atom Eve from Invincible (I like that she retires from being a super-hero and goes to do good deeds in third-world countries), but I would do a disservice to her over-abundant-brilliance. Math and science are not my strong points.

My final answer? Well, Terry introduced her yesterday - I would be the Enchantress. In spite of her hypnotic powers, she seems very human, moving back and forth between good and evil ( I wonder if she ever saw herself as evil). 

Now I bandy the question back at you – what comic book character would you be? 

Esoteric Characters: The Enchantress

Saturday, April 25th, 2009

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Hypnomedia’s Terry O’Brien brings us another fascinating Esoteric Saturday.

Looking over the diverse cast of mesmeric characters in the Golden Age of Comics (which is the period from the start of comics publication through the end of WW II) one is eventually struck by the rampant sexism involved. Practically every villainous hypnotic character is male, from the shady sideshow hypnotists and crafty con artists to the mysterious mystics and malevolent magicians to the sinister scientists and demented doctors. Which should be no surprise, as there were very few female villains at all during that time. The most famous female hero of the time, Wonder Woman. Wonder Woman had several female opponents, but her two hypnotic opponents, one female and one male, both disguised themselves: the female one was Hypnota, the self-described “?agician of the Blue Ray” and member of “Villainy, Incorporated”, who disguised herself as a man using a fake mustache and goatee, while the requisite male hypnotic villain was Dr Psycho, who hypnotized a subservient female spirit medium to evoke and manipulate ectoplasm at his command, including disguising his dwarfish body with a handsome ectoplasmic shell.

There were a few others, of curse, such as the Harlequin, who used a pair of hypnotic glasses as part of her circus clown motif, but she was a much more sympathetic character and eventually reformed, and Baroness von Gunther, another of Wonder Woman’s opponents, who on at least one occasion tried using hypnosis to interrogate a captive office (which ultimately failed, again possibly demonstrating male superiority.) But these were quite the exceptions: it almost seems as though the comics writers just didn’t want to or weren’t allowed to have a female character, hero or villain, who could control the male characters. It was acceptable for Luthor to put Superman under his hypnotic control, but no woman could. Given the sexism of the culture at the time, that seems a likely explanation.

But that all changed at the dawn of the Silver Age of Comics (starting around 1964), which happened to roughly coincide with the dawn of the Women’s Movement. Strong female characters like Saturn Girl of the Legion of Super-Heroes and Sue Storm (the Invisible Girl, later the Invisible Woman) started appearing, so it was fitting that it also see saw the dawn of the first true female hypnotic villainous characters.

And what a dawn it was.

Enter the Enchantress. A minor Asgardian goddess (it has been suggested she was based on Freya, although later suggestions are that she was Idunn) she long lusted after the noble Thor, all the way from when they were young godlings, all to naught, as Thor was either too interested in battling giants or in his battle companion Sif (a purely potentially Platonic relationship) whereas Amora, to use her given name, was more interested in pleasure and the satisfaction of her amorous desires. During that time, she made several suspected and one certain attempt to enthrall Thor but was constantly thwarted, either by Sif or her own misjudgment about Thor himself. That never stopped her, however.

The Enchantress possessed the average abilities of any Asgardian god or goddess, strengths and abilities far above mere mortal men and women, but it was her superior seductive skills and mesmerizing mystic abilities that truly earned her the title of the Enchantress. She was an apt magical pupil of Karnilla, Queen of the Norns (who had her own unrequited passion for another of the Norse gods, Balder) until Karnilla banished her, and she used her wiles and magical ways to seduce and learn from other instructors. She used her supernatural beauty as a weapon as powerful as any repulsor ray or mystic hammer, and employed her mystic learning to devastating ends. She excelled at spells of enchantments and illusions, going so far as enchanting her lips so that any man she kissed (which even included the Vision, an android) into falling deeply in love with her. She had several other mystic charms and enchantments and artifacts in her arsenal, as well.

374px-enchantress_by_jack_Visually, the Enchantress lived up to her name and reputation. A tall, green-eyed blonde with long flowing hair and longer legs (there is one memorable image of her, by an artist with demonstratively limited knowledge of human proportion, which showed her with legs twice the size of her body: the image was derisively titled “Stilt Girl”) she is one of the best examples of artist Jack Kirby’s women, and subsequent artists have also done her justice.

The Enchantress first appeared in “Journey into Mystery” (1964) in a plot by Loki: her mission was to seduce Don Blake, Thor’s mortal alter-ego. Her supernatural beauty allowed her to manipulate the mortal populace of New York, but Thor’s own supernatural heritage and noble love for Sif allowed him to resist even her charms. For this and other crimes, the Enchantress and her cohort the Executioner were banished to Earth by an angry Odin (Avengers #7), where they set about contacting like-minded criminal individuals, eventually forming an alliance with Baron Zemo and creating the Masters of Evil. In their first scheme to battle the Avengers, the Enchantress summoned Thor by way of a haunting call, then momentarily mesmerized him with a hypnotic stare and placed him under her control using a powerful potion. Under her control, he saw his fellow Avengers as cruel enemies and started attacking them. Fortunately Iron Man realized Thor was under a hypnotic spell and managed to awaken him with a bright flash of light.

That set the pattern for the Enchantress. Her plots typically involved some scheme to gain control over Thor or some way to further her satisfactions. She would target Thor or any other male hero with her mesmerizing beauty and hypnotic spells, including such heroes as Captain America, the Black Knight and the Vision, if she thought she could gain something from the encounter. However, she was more vain and self-centered as opposed to actually villainous, so very little actual damage was ever done. She avoided confrontations with female heroes, but she did have battles with the Scarlet Witch (once the wife of the Vision) and Clea, the paramour of Doctor Strange.

That pattern began to change when Lorelei, Amora’s younger sister, showed up. Lorelei did what Amora never could, managing to snare Thor’s heart, although she had to use a mystic love potion and the aid of Loki to do so. A jealous Amora helped free Thor and take her vengeance against her sister by causing Lorelei to fall in love with Loki by way of the same mystic potion. When Thor discovered them together in bed, he was so enraged at their duplicity and at how he had been enchanted: that he forced Loki to free him from the mystic love spell by threatening him with certain death and Loki could only comply.

Its hard to say whether that event, the later death of Lorelei, or other factors effected a change in her character, but it did lead to a change in her relationship with Thor. When Odin removed Thor’s powers and banished him to Earth, he and Amora finally had the relationship she desired, living together in New York, but it didn’t last, as Thor suddenly went missing (as did many other heroes at the time.) When Thor later returned to Asgard to return the missing Odin to the throne, then assumed the throne himself, he and Amora continued that relationship. But all that ended when Loki initiated Ragnarok and destroyed Asgard and the Asgardians. Yet gods do not die so easily, so long as mortal men remember them: Thor eventually awoke and returned to the mortal world. When he was manipulated by Loki into awakening the rest of the other Asgardians, it included Amora, who is now hanging with the Young Masters.

Its hard to imagine a character like the Enchantress as a model for the Woman’s Movement, but in many ways she was. Certainly she was vain and self-centered but she was also strong and independent, allying herself and using others but never subservient to them, more often at least their equal if not superior to them. She used her own talents and beauty to make her own way in the world and was totally unapologetic about it. She had the will and the drive to excel at her chosen endeavor, plus the patience to see her through any setback. But underneath her manipulative exterior, she still had a heart. The other man in her life, Skurge, the Executioner, was infatuated with her but rarely assisted her schemes unless they were directly related to Thor or Asgard. For her part, Amora heartlessly strung him along. But when he sacrificed himself in a raid on Hel, she found herself truly grieving for his loss.

In short, Amora is a ground-breaker and a trend-setter, a complicated character and a true enchantress. And a fitting icon of the Women’s Movement that she sprung from.

10 Questions with Dorothy Whitton

Friday, April 24th, 2009

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Location: Nyack, NY
Cyber Location: www.earthswisdom.com

1. Are you a full time hypnotist, part-time or hobbyist?

I am a full time Hypnotist/Holistic RN

2. Do you specialize in any type of hypnosis?

I work with a wide range of people. I use hypnosis for emotional trauma, behavior modification, pain reduction, childbirth(HypnoBirthing), women’s health and fertility, regression therapy, and reaching optimal health of mind/body/spirit.

3. Is there any type of hypnosis you do not do? Why?

I do not offer hypnosis for any sexual reasons. I look for clients that I can best be of help to.

4. Do you use self-hypnosis regularly in your life? If so, how?

I use hypnosis daily for positive living, staying healthy, vibrant and well.

5. Describe your hypnosis office or work setting.

I work in a professional office in a busy town of Nyack, NY. It is comfortable, relaxing atmosphere. I will either use a massage table or chair for my clients’ comfort. Soft music can be played to enhance the relaxation effect.

6. Describe a typical day in your life.

I see patients regularly, enjoy family connections, and offer and do lectures in my community hospitals, and libraries. I walk 4 miles 2-3x week, and love nature and the surrounding river town that I live in. I formed a Holistic Network in my area, and we meet monthly and more often at other gatherings of like minded people. I love what I do and take care of myself.

7. Where did you get your training in hypnosis and are you certified?

I got certified through the National Guild of Hypnotists, and The IACT. I was trained by Paul Aurand, and continued with supervision training at the Holistic Healing Center for several months.

8. Most fabulous hypnosis technique you use?

I gather my information, and intuitive knowledge about each client, and then do the techniques that work best for them. I’ll use a progressive relaxation first, then induction methods.

9. Worse moment ever in a hypnosis setting that ended up being a valuable learning experience.

I don’t focus on any negative experiences. All my learned experiences come from all areas of my life. I am grateful to be able to serve others in this rewarding practice.

10. Any words of advice to potential clients or other hypnotists.

Don’t try hard with hypnosis. It’s valuable and everyone can be hypnotized. Some people need more than one session to gain trust, and a feeling of safety with the practitioner. It’s a therapeutic relationship that needs to develop. Take a little time first to feel centered and relaxed; and be positive about whatever turns up.

The Clutter Conversation

Thursday, April 23rd, 2009

Or How A Piece Of Plastic May Change My Life


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My name is Ellie Blunt and I am a clutter-aholic. 

I say this with conviction to the crowded-yet-empty room. In my mind, the observer sits, head propped in her hands, pushing her glasses back onto her nose bridge. The critic is posed on the edge of her seat, notebook in hand and has begun to scribble something. The logical part of me paces back and forth and the creative side, runs her finger’s through her hair, ready to problem solve. She thinks she is a team player, but is often at odds with Reason (aka logic). 

I have their attention with my introduction and they respond with “Hello Ellie.”  Then there is a pause, exquisite silence and I enjoy it. 

The critic is the first to speak, “That is true Ellie, you are a clutter-aholic. Everything is piled up everywhere. How can you live in this mess?”

“It is a sign of creativity. She is constantly working on stuff,” my creative side comes to my defense.

“But is that the most productive way?” asks Reason.

The observer watches all this without comment.

This is a conversation I often have with myself when things get busy-crazy. These are the sides of me I commune with during self-hypnosis and very often each serves its purpose well…until they gang up on me. The most recent incident was when I went shopping to stock up on tea for the office. My normally organized purse was in its own state of crisis and this became known to everyone in the grocery store when I had to go excavating not only for my credit card, but also for my “user loyalty card” (yes, I want those points to save on my gas expenses). Out flew old receipts, lipstick, cell-phone, eye drops, Aspirin vials, and a few unmentionables. All this trouble was to save a few cents on a gallon of gas. Was it worth it? 

The answer is yes. Yes, all the ungraceful moments of my life circumstances leaking out of my purse for the world to see was worth the trouble. Sure, I will save a tad on my next tank of petrol. But, the incident in question tells me something more is going on inside me. I have let some hecticness filter in and affect me. I am not taking enough time out for myself (I do not believe I meditated yesterday). It also reeks of a need to simplify again, to reconsider a new organizational system (I do like a good system).

As I pulled out my abundant key ring (remembering I had my loyalty card attached to it), the wad of plastic and metal seemed really overbearing. There was a sudden flashback of trying to find my office supply store card on it, only to realize it had worn away and had released itself into the wilds of the world, becoming another piece of plastic litter. Unacceptable. 

While perusing buzzpond.com, I found a potential solution, a new system for organizing loyalty cards. The name of this fabulous thing is simply The KeyRing Thing. Basically, it lists all your loyalty card barcodes on one card (holding a total of six loyalty cards), thus combining a series of annoying little plastic tags or several cards that take up space. The reality is, you could probably make one card yourself by combining all the tags and laminating them onto card stock. But for a small shipping and handling fee (about $2 a card), this could be a really useful piece of plastic to carry around (provided you can find your wallet in your purse or briefcase - lol).

As a hypnotist, I appreciate things that easily modify behavior, whether you trance out for it or not. Therefore, I have ordered said card and will give it a go. My creative self is still thinking it would be fun to make my own card, but Reason has won this one (this is cleaner, neater, and by the time I buy the card stock and lamination supplies, the cost will well exceed $2). My inner critic seems satisfied and is taking a coffee break and the observer? Well, she is always watching.

Visit KeyRingThing to learn more.

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He Played the Violin - Dave Elman

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009


Elman. It is a name that reads like a mantra for hypnotists. It is bandied around, nonchalantly in various interviews (do a search on this blog and it pops up often), articles, and scripts for inducing hypnosis. If you are a regular reader here, very often the hypnotists featured in the 10 Questions mention Elman as a most fabulous technique. I even posted my favorite five modified Elman inductions last week.

But for many reading this blog, it is a name like any other, just something to pass over quickly and forget. In many beginning hypnotists circles the name is also just a word, maybe slightly tinged with mystique. So the question is – who was Dave Elman and why is his name a modern mantra?

There are a few articles (see sources at the end of this post) that provide a decent biography. In these you will find the story of a boy who watched his father suffer the pains of cancer. A family friend who was a hypnotist helped the elder Elman find relief and this impacted Dave greatly. However it would take several more years before he would make a mark in the hypno world. He was a musician (not only did he play the violin but also the saxophone), an entertainer, a writer, went into radio and even advertising until at the age of 49, then going into hypnotism full-time. How odd to encapsulate a person’s life in such a sentence. There is definitely more to it than I mentioned, but for the sake of time, I will move on with this post.

Here is one of the important things to know about Dave Elman - his magic lies in creating a hypnotic induction that works rapidly and deeply. This came about during his experiments with doing hypnotism as entertainment. He wanted to find a way to induce hypnosis that would be fast and effectual. The results were that he created an induction that both mentally and physically relaxes the client and suspends that little critical voice we all have playing in our consciousness (the one that says, I can’t be hypnotized, this will never work, what is going on – you get the idea). Components of his induction include eye-lock (the client’s eyes remain closed and they feel unable to open their eyes), repetitive deepeners (or re-inductions that provide a deeper state of hypnosis), arm dropping (used to help create physical relaxation), and fading numbers. It also happened that a member of the medical community saw him do a stage show using such inductions and was so impressed that he asked Dave to teach him and his colleagues how to do hypnotism. This sparked his career in teaching dentist and physicians hypnotism, propelling his name forward is hypnotism fame and respect.

As this is just cursory, I have two sources you should visit. Both explain the induction in greater detail and provide wonderful background information on Mr. Elman.

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My Starbucks Crusade

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

 
Photography by Foto-4-Life – (cc)

“I would like a cup of decaf coffee, please,” I say to the Starbucks clerk.

“We do not serve decaf after (insert an afternoon time here),” she says looking slightly apologetic. Then she goes on to say that they can make a mean decaf Americano for me (and I can dearly pay for that, thinks I).  Now, if I were in London, Paris, or even Toronto, I probably would have no problem with this Americano stuff, but alas, being in the United States, I just want a simple cup of decaf. Maybe it is not manly to want decaf (oh right - I am a female) after 4 p.m., but the truth is, I really want one. I want the taste and not the heart-fluttering-keep-me-up-all-night regular coffee. Instead of shelling out a few extra quarters for the Americano, I remain stubborn and head over to Au Bon Pain, who happily provides me with a simple cup of decaf coffee.

This is a pattern that has repeated itself since January (when no Au Bon Pain is available, I have been known to go with 7-11 low-octane). Like the normal Starbucks coffee, I am left with a bitter aftertaste, especially after asking the latest clerk who I could speak to about the decaf issue and being told “no one would care.” 

But, BUT, there has been a reprieve. I some how missed all the articles about the decaf lay-off back in January and therefore was not privy to one essential key element - coffee on demand at Starbucks. If they have the beans (even in the retail area) and someone requests a certain type of coffee, they can often french-press it. Yes, it takes an additional four minutes for the coffee to brew, but if you are prepared for it, four minutes is an acceptable wait (a prime opportunity to meditate). 

This past Sunday I decided to see if this would work. I asked the clerk for decaf. She offered me an Americano. I asked if she could french-press my decaf. Rather than giving me a polite answer, she stormed off, found her preparation instructions, located the french-press, and after six minutes (two extra minutes for some passive-aggressiveness), I go my decaf. 

For those of you wondering why I am taking up the space to write about this on a hypnosis blog (even if you are aware that I am a big coffee and tea drinker), here is my reasoning. Hypnosis is all about change, suggestion, and often behavior modification. Though I shall not hypnotize you (though I would love to pretend that my writing is that entrancing), a change is needed. Though I praise Starbucks for trying to conserve on waste (and expense), I feel that decaf drinkers are being treated very badly and Starbucks could use some encouragement in their behavior modification of dealing with my demographic in a more compassionate way. The more we do not give into the fancy decaf products (Amercianos, lattes, cappuccino, and the like) and just ask for decaf, maybe they will understand that we are as important as regular coffee drinker customers. I am one small person, but since January, I have spent over $50 in decaf at other places because I did not know that Starbuck’s would accommodate me.

Now for the suggestion part of the post - if you are a decaf drinker, please consider requesting a cup of regular decaf in the afternoon. The french-press makes it possible. You will probably have to request it.

Please join my crusade for decaf at Starbucks in the afternoon and evening. Blog about it, get the word out, and let the world know. If you do blog about this or have a decaf Starbuck story, leave a comment and I will follow up with some decent do follow link love. 

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