Archive for May, 2009

Transparent Changes

Monday, May 25th, 2009

I have alluded to the idea that things are changing for The Transparent Hypnotist, but before I do anything terribly differently, I want to know what you think. This is important because without your support these are just words, binary bits in the air. Yes, I know, having a survey on a Monday is a serious deviation already, but it just cannot be helped.

There are 12 questions (mostly multiple choice) on this survey. It should only take a couple of minutes. I hope you will help me out by answering the questions.

*Entrecarders - I will give the first 10 of you who answer the questions (you have to enter your email in the survey) and leave me a comment or email (ellie.blunt@gmail.com) a 100 entrecredits.

How often do you read The Transparent Hypnotist?







Does it matter if there is a new post on The Transparent Hypnotist everyday?




About the Hypno World News:






About the 10 Questions:


















What are you thoughts about having regular features that run on specific days?




What would you like to see on the Transparent Hypnotist?


Why do you read The Transparent Hypnotist?







With the idea of expanding the Transparent Hypnotist so that it covers wider topics in hypnotism, NLP and positive thinking, how do you feel about reading other hypnotists\' words regularly (as in they might have a weekly column here)?






If The Transparent Hypnotist included regular columns by other hypnotists, I would:





Is there anything else that you would like Ellie to know about The Transparent Hypnotist blog?




A Question of Vehicular Change

Sunday, May 24th, 2009

Photograph by freeparking(cc)

The smell is all newness and potential, grand adventures and long drives. The last congratulatory handshakes from the sales person have passed, my name has been signed to a servitude of paying-off a loan and the keys have been handed over. There is a sense of familiarity in sitting behind the wheel. It feels and drives like my last beloved little car, the one that I have left behind at the dealership. Memories and emotion flow out of me as I drive my pre-owned car off the lot and make it a part of my daily life.

I find myself mourning my old car and feel like I have taken a cherished pet to the animal shelter. I do not know what will happen to it, but I hope for the best. I also know that this is pure silliness on my part - the car had over 175,000 miles on it, was thirteen years old, over-heated in city traffic, needed some extensive repair work and had peeling paint….and yet, I remember the joy of taking it home that first, rainy day. It took me across the the world, or at least it felt like it at times (across the States several times). At other times, it felt like the only friend I had.

Perhaps you are like my partner and wonder about how I have anthropomorphized that vehicle. And yes, perhaps I should be more evolved and not feel the pangs of loss (I do have a beautiful, close-to new car) for a material object, but alas, even years of psychology courses seem to be failing me at the moment. Maybe this falls into the whole “change is hard” category.

I have chosen to share this with you, needing to remember this (so maybe I will not become quite so attached the next time), needing to remember the spirit of my vehicle and show my gratitude towards it for keeping me safe and being as reliable as it was for so long. I hope you will understand.

So today’s question relates to this - do you think of your vehicles as objects of transportation or is there something more to them, something almost intangible that gives them something like an artificial intelligence?

This Is Not So Esoteric

Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

Yesterday’s 10 Questions were just not complete. I did a terrible thing…in all my hurriedness, I short-changed my guest hypnotist. Yes, I did the unthinkable, the unfair, the most terrible thing I could do – I forget to include Shelley Albini’s location and a link to her web site.

I have corrected this error, but I still feel bad. Dear reader, if you would, please visit her web site at www.natural-mama.net and help me make this up to her.

10 Questions with Shelley Albini

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

hypnobaby

Location: Waterburyand New Haven, CT
Cyber Location: www.natural-mama.net

1. Are you a full time hypnotist, a part-time hypnotist, a professional who incorporates hypnotism occasionally in your other
practice, or are you a hobbyist?

I am a part time hypnotist and a full time business owner.

2. Do you specialize in any type of hypnotism?

I specialize in natural childbirth and fertility using hypnosis.

3. Is there any form of hypnotism that you do not practice and why (i.e. entertainment, past-life regression, pain management)?

I find that focusing on birth helps me to be good at what I do. There are so many areas in life that can benefit by hypnosis, too many to focus on at this time.

4. Do you use self-hypnosis regularly in your life? If so, how?

Self-hypnosis is too awesome a skill not to use myself. I use it to improve my business decisions and for general peace of mind.

5. Describe your hypnotism office or work setting.

I teach in many different settings. I teach classes at Yale New Haven Hospital 4 times a year on Saturday mornings, I teach at couples homes and in my office at 1449 Old Waterbury Road, Southbury, CT.

6. Describe a typical day in your life.

My primary job is MOM, so I do all the mom things, but when everyone is in school, I spend time in my home office when I’m not out with clients. I love what I do.

7. Where did you get your training in hypnotism and are you certified by any organization?

I initially became certified by the HypnoBirthing Institute to teach HypnoBirthing classes. I went on to receive my Hypnotherapy certification from the National Guild of Hypnotherapists (NGH) and most recently became certified to do Fertility using Hypnosis.

8. What is the most fabulous hypnotism technique you use or prefer?

I agree with another interviewee that the most fabulous technique is the one that is perfect for the client and comes through my subconscious to the room. It’s quiet exciting. I did a session for fertility using hypnosis and two weeks later the women became pregnant. Doesn’t get any better than that!

9. What was the worse moment you ever experienced in a hypnotism setting that ended up being a valuable learning experience?

Luckily nothing horrible has happened. At the very least, clients become very relaxed and leave with a sense of well being. Sometimes births don’t happen the way couples hope they would, and the learning here is that one can only control their part. The baby and the Universe have a say as well.

10. Do you have any words of advice to potential clients or other hypnotists that you would like to share?

Self-hypnosis is an amazing tool for childbirth and I encourage clients and practitioners alike to explore this option. Thanks for this opportunity to share my views.

Through a Different Lens

Thursday, May 21st, 2009


Photography by Auzigog(cc)

Yikes!!!!

Age has set in and I am deteriorating on the spot. I have been having some eye problems (a suggestion imprinted for my mum’s eye problems back in January?) and apparently my sight has changed significantly from last year.  I thought it would be a simple get-new-lens-for-the-glasses, but it seems more complicated. My sight has changed so much so that with the new lens, I have perspective issues and headaches. I have been back to the optometrist twice and they told me to hang in there until next Monday. I asked why and the response is that it will take my brain a little while to catch up with the change. Apparently my mind is trying to compensate for the changes as compared to my old lens and it will take a little time for the mind to adjust to the new lens.

Soooooo…if it is a mind thing, then I can influence the change through hypnotism. I can nudge my mind into accepting the change a little sooner. However, as the headache looms large, I am having trouble focusing. Hypnotist out there, any suggestions for creating that change?

The Words of Dorothy Dix

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Forgive me friends, there maybe changes on the horizon for the transparent hypnotist. I find today that I must hurry off and leave blogging for another time. But I will not leave you completely without a hypnosis thought for the day…

Here are the immortal words of Dorothy Dix:

“Happiness is largely a matter of self-hypnotism. You can think yourself happy or you can think yourself miserable.”

A Burst of Energy

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009


Photograph by Łukasz Strachanowski (cc)

Life seems brighter this week. The quality of light has changed, there is a coolness to the mornings, and I feel very much alive. Maybe it was a week spent in nature. Maybe it is the idea of new prospects on the horizon. I have a feeling of hopefulness about everything (come to think about it, maybe it was a week away from the pessimism of television that is influencing my mood). Maybe it is because I have been trying out David Mason’s 10 Steps to Happiness. Maybe it is because I have been maintaining my goal to do self-hypnosis everyday (with simple, positive suggestions to help me with various concerns as they arise). Whatever the case, I am filled with something other than restlessness, something positive and directing. I am not sure where the pull of the path with lead but it will be interesting to follow its dictates.

Something I have been experiencing lately is how I deal with the question – does hypnosis work? In my first years as a hypnotist, when someone would ask me this question (and they always ask me this), I would exuberantly launch into a diatribe filled with hypnosis enthusiasm. As the years have progressed, I find the question a little more annoying, but realize it is a way to connect with someone else, a way to educate. But recently, when people ask me this, darker thoughts occur. Would I be involved in a profession that offers nothings but scams and hollow promises (that is an emphatic NO)? Why would someone ask me “does hypnosis work?” Do you ask your doctor if his or her advice will “really work” (well maybe)? Do you ask your sanitation workers if the chemicals they use will really remove the dirt?

In my week away, while engaging in self-hypnosis, I asked myself why this question annoyed me so much. The answer came back that it takes a lot of energy to create change. In a career where everything is about change, I had lost sight of the fact that I am not only helping those who seek my services to achieve inner-change, but also helping change the face of hypnotism itself. Sure I come across the occasional person outside my field who is somewhat knowledgeable in the realities of hypnosis, but that sort of person is still not the prevailing population. That means that I have to maintain enough energy to have a realistic discourse on hypnosis with most people I meet. Sometimes my energy wains as I find myself repeating and re-repeating myself.

That is awful, isn’t it? I know. And so, that is one thing I worked on last week - rather than giving all my energy away on those conversations, I can gain energy from other people’s interest in what I do for a living. Today, I feel like this is all possible.

Back and Other Other News

Monday, May 18th, 2009


Photograph by Sebastian Fritzon (cc)

Wow. There is a lot to catch up on in the world of hypnosis. Sadly, my time is limited, but I shifted through a few things to catch-up.

Quotes of the Week

Once again, hypnotic therapy works quite well in such situations. It helps people overcome their nerves about facing people and makes them more confident in such situations – from the article Overcoming Social Anxiety And Shyness on Best Syndication.

Meditation, relaxation training and even self-hypnosis can not only blunt the negative effects of anxiety and tension but also promote beneficial emotional and physical changes of their own – from the article Combat cognitive decline with lifestyle changes in the dailypress.com, which presents ideas by psychologist Terry J. Gingras.

Scientifically Good

Previous research shows that hypnosis can improve quality of life and symptoms for individuals with ulcers and irritable bowel syndrome. The British scientists did suggest that perhaps hypnotherapy helps all three conditions because all three are subject to fluctuation and worsening of symptoms due to psychological stress. Hypnotherapy can potentially remedy those flare-ups without drugs – from the article Hypnotherapy Effective for Reducing Inflammation, Colitis in The Alternative Health Journal.

Brown (1991) points out the benefits of hypnosis on treating people diagnosed with bulimia nervosa. There are many psychological factors involved with this eating disorder including negative body image, perfectionism, and outside factors such as family. This study showed that using hypnosis sessions to treat people with bulimia, showed to be very effective. The hypnosis techniques involved relaxation, imagery, and positive suggestions to target the subconscious mind of the patient. Hypnosis was able to improve and treat the psychological issues contributing to bulimia nervosa – from the article Use Hypnotherapy to Treat Bulimia in Natural News.

A Question of Restoration

Sunday, May 17th, 2009

It is Saturday as I type this and I am sitting in the quiet sanctuary of a friend’s house. All of my companions are out and about, but I remain here to relax, read, and type my Sunday Question to you. Tomorrow I am up for one last day hike, starting at sunrise, and ending with a five hour drive back home. Therefore this moment seems most perfect to spend it it with you.

One of my companions who has joined me for the duration of this impromptu trip week, says she is now completely worn-out and wants another week to just recuperate from the rigors of hiking, playing with puppies, and occasionally finding a wonderful catfish restaurant. I can see her point to a certain degree – a change of schedule and such can be a bit tiring. However for me it is totally invigorating. 

So the Sunday Question is – are vacations just that, a break and restoration or are they just the opposite (and why?)

Esoteric Coincidences

Saturday, May 16th, 2009

by Terry O’Brien

Sometimes, I feel like a strangeness magnet. Not a weirdness magnet, because weird things don’t happen to me, but there have been several strange coincidences that have happened in my life, and one of them is relevant.

I went to Japan back in August, 2007. The World Science Fiction Convention was held in Yokohama that year, and being a true SF fan and Japan fan, I finally decided to attend, and spend several days surrounding the convention in Tokyo and on tour through other parts of the country. And it was during this trip that not one but two strange coincidences occurred.

The first strange coincidence was at the convention that I ran into my old friend Erick Wujcik. Erick was a very highly regarded game designer, whose best publication is a revolutionary diceless roleplaying system based on the Amber novels of Roger Zelazny. I hadn’t seem him for several years, as he had been teaching in China, and I wasn’t expecting him at the convention, but our paths crossed one morning as we passed on our separate ways to breakfast. We managed to chat a moment and promise to meet later, but that really didn’t happen. Regrettably but also fortunately, that was my last chance to see him as he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a few months later and died the following April.

But, even though that encounter was a strange coincidence, the strangeness I’m thinking about was even stranger.

That strange coincidence was when I was watching Japanese TV in my cramped hotel room in Tokyo. I was bored, lacking Internet access in my room, so I was channel surfing. I found a lot of baseball games, a couple American and British imports (like the Turtles or early Doctor Who in Japanese), strange gameshows and some kid’s anime. But one show caught my eye and I’m glad I paused to get a closer look.

The scene I was seeing was of a man, imprisoned in a jail cell, chained to a chair, with an opaque mask over his eyes. My first question to myself was “why is he wearing a mask?” The first answer that jumped into my mind was, of course, that somehow he could hypnotize people by meeting their gaze. While I was pondering this question, the scene shifted to who were apparently the stars of the program, a group of teenagers ranging from early to late teens. It was unclear how or why they were together, but it seemed like they were some kind of investigators, nor could I tell what role the two adults (one an older man in a wheelchair and the other reminded me of a stereotypical detective, complete with a fedora, which he would run his hand across in a very expressive gesture) played. However, knowing more than a little about common elements of television drama, I could tell this the first episode of an ongoing series.

There was also the strange woman in a white summer dress and parasol who had some undefined connection with the villain and the heroes. She had the amazing power of “Summon Limousine” that would cause a black limo to suddenly appear whenever anyone got too close to her, cutting them off and sweeping her away.

Curious, and lacking anything better to do, I continued to watch. Several minutes later, my patience was rewarded. I know only a few words of Japanese, but there is one I know very well, and when the teenagers were visiting the cell of the prisoner, I heard it: “saimin”. While “saimin” in Japanese can mean a type of raman noodle dish, it also has another meaning: “hypnotism”. Given the context, my suspicion was correct, the prisoner was a powerful hypnotist. And, of course, as the villain of the piece, he would have to escape, which he did by tricking the guard into removing his mask. Under the villain’s control, the guard rampaged inside the prison, while the hypnotist was in a coma and being driven away in an ambulance. However, as the guard was incapacitated, the villain, who was apparently controlling the guard remotely, suddenly opened his eyes and entranced the nurse attending him by eye contract. He then took control of the ambulance and drove away, just as the heroes realized what he was doing, watching him drive away.

And that’s all I know about the show. I don’t know a title, or how long it ran, or anything else, and lacking any further information or any resource to search, it remains just another strange coincidence and a great mystery.


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